2021.11.28 23:14 FrontlineArtisan02 My (19M) girlfriend (19F) recently moved to college and wants to just be friends.
My girlfriend of 3 years moved an hour away down to a college when we used to live literally next door to each other has told me she doesn't feel about me the same way as she used to. An hour doesn't seem far, but in between her schooling, my schooling, and my job, we hardly even have time to text each other. I know that seems like it's a given that we'd grow apart by now, but I'm not sure how I feel about it. I still love her deeply, and I wish things could go back to the way they were in high school when we saw each other every single day. We've been through so much together and we've done so much for each other that the fact that she can just change the way she feels and that's that really hurts more than I can say. I know this seems like a petty problem compared to the other things that I see on here, but I didn't know who else to go to since basically every other relationship I've had is pretty much gone by now. She told me she still wants to be a part of my life but not in the same way. I don't know if I can do that. Just thinking of her makes me sad when it used to fill me with indescribable joy. She doesn't want to cut me out of her life, but I don't know if I'm strong enough to let her stay. I still have so many reminders of her in my apartment and everything I see makes me think of her. I don't know what to do. Perhaps I'm being over dramatic but I really don't know how to move on with her still being a part of my life. I don't know what to do.
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2021.11.28 23:14 Leonardoj92 Unplayable Lag Spike recently
Has anyone been experiencing lag spikes recently? Ever since Chamber came out valorant has been unplayable for me. Ping sits at 30 but every 2 seconds I get lag spikes. I can't even strafe without getting teleported into enemy crosshair.
Does anyone know if this can be fixed on my end?
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2021.11.28 23:14 johnnylgarfield "Tendon" from KonoSuba - inarguably one of the funniest anime tracks of all time! :D
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2021.11.28 23:14 Snoo36274 Discord Server With Free Stuff
2021.11.28 23:14 shittychampagne Transplanting newbie
I have a monstera that has been thriving for well over a year. It started getting too full for its pot and was advised to split it up into multiple pots. I did that (7 pots total!) and watered it. After a couple days I noticed some of the leaves were getting brown spots and turning a little yellow. I assumed I either over watered or under watered, then I read that the soil needs to stay moist for (can’t remember how long) after transplanting into a new pot. So I’ve sprayed each monstera at the base for the past few days.
Should I also be giving them plant food? Or something similar? Please let me know what I can do to make sure most of these transplants survive.
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2021.11.28 23:14 HardstuckBronzeRank I understand that it's my fault, but I don't know what I could be doing differently
I used to post here a lot. I spent a long time trying to get better at this game. I'm in bronze, bottom 1% of players, and as you'd imagine I'm really unhappy with it. I played about 30 hours, ranked bronze, and then proceeded to spend the next ~500 hours of game time trying to improve at this stupid game. Over the course of about a year, I had VOD reviews done for me constantly, read/watched guides, aim trained, I tried everything. With a four star border and no meaningful progress, I gradually dropped the game. I became scared to play because the silver border is approaching fast, and there's a special shame in having a silver border with a bronze rank. And I'm low bronze. It's unavoidable if I play, so I just stopped playing, only logging in for skin challenges.
While I was gone I played other games. Rainbow Six Siege, Apex, etc. I was awful at those too after considerable time and effort. I even picked up chess. I was terrible. I'm so tired of sucking at things but quitting Overwatch hasn't helped me escape that. So I came back, and I'm just as bad as when I left.
I've been losing a lot and each time has been 100% my fault. I'm sure of that, since I just don't know what's going on, so it's a 5v6. I play but I'm not really doing anything, and I die whenever I try. I know this is supposed to be easy, these are bottom 1% lobbies, but it feels impossible. I probably just have bad DNA or something, but I simply don't see a way to win these games. I've done plenty of VOD reviews, I've heard the tips. Still, I just don't see how this is so easy for everyone else. I'm utterly useless to my team but these bronze lobbies feel like the OWL, I can't do anything. It's frustrating to be so terrible, most people are in gold and can hold their own there. Most people also don't practice and only play for fun, so what makes me this bad? I even had someone coach me personally for around half a year ffs, what is the problem here?
"Bad" doesn't feel like bad, it feels like it's the game that's impossible. I understand that I'm not doing enough to win but I don't know what I'm supposed to be doing. I've tried VODs, I've received so many tips, and they haven't helped. I can't apply them properly. I don't think any VOD review can help, since I'm missing something much bigger than a small tip on positioning. So at this point I'm basically just asking what sort of brain surgery I need to get to stop being so useless to my team lol. Because I've been training "the fundamentals" for ages and they're simply beyond me. I really want to be good, or at least better than the cats that demolish me on a regular basis by walking over the enemy's keyboard. But it takes a special kind of idiot to be 700 SR after all this and I'm tired of being that way. What makes me different? Why me?
It's like no matter what I do, no matter how much thought I put into it, it's always wrong because I'm the one doing it. Some sort of curse that makes it so that my decisions never work out (and my shots never hit). I take so many tips into account and I still manage to screw it up. Why? It doesn't even make sense. I should be plat or something, most players that do the things I've done are diamond or above, and yet I can't even contribute in the bottom 1%. It's kind of absurd, how I'm still so bad.
But I don't understand the game. It's like I'm playing my own thing, holding the baseball bat with my feet. I can't figure out how to play properly, so I want to know why and why everyone else can.
Also: I run Overwatch fine, my mouse sucks but it doesn't suck enough to justify a rank this low (or game sense this bad). On paper, how bad I am is kind of hard to believe. I'm not too far off from being the worst player in the world, even worse than new players despite a lot of effort. That's really frustrating to me and I want to know what's causing this.
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2021.11.28 23:14 budsonk Chain store cactus age
Generally speaking, approximately how old are the typical cacti sold at big chain stores like home depot and lowes? My assumption is about 2-4 years old?
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2021.11.28 23:14 accforcringeposts What are some things you can do to help get you out of your head?
2021.11.28 23:14 SaveFroman If I wanted to say that there is no clear (or definitive) creator of the game of tennis, would "No hay un creador claro del tenis" be a good way to say it?
If I wanted to say that there is no clear (or definitive) creator of the game of tennis, would "No hay un creador claro del tenis" be a good way to say it?
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2021.11.28 23:14 PapayaWeekly6182 EXTRA EXTRA
Will extra extra ever release? I’m willing to pitch in for a group buy if there’s one going around. Like a large sum. Let me know! And for people who don’t know this grail, here you go
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2021.11.28 23:14 lonerpop805 2 questions regarding my senior english bulldog?
He’s 10. My 2 main concerns are his barking and when he walks his little back legs make a soft popping sound like the bone... do you think when he walks he may be in pain? I can’t tell but he doesn’t show signs of stress or pain. He also barks a lot, he can bark for a long time all alone or with his dog sisters.I notice he wines and barks for my attention half the time i’m with him...he will bark until i pet him(i know it’s my bad for not training him) but a part of me worries he may be becoming senile? The sundown syndrome I think it’s called. Or is he just a cry baby for my attention?
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2021.11.28 23:14 Adaptandevolve9119 [PS4]H: miniguns W: offers
2021.11.28 23:14 sselbesselbe [Seiko] 63MAS SPB239 daily beater
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2021.11.28 23:14 Purple-Dragoon Objective failed
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2021.11.28 23:14 lmaogetbodied32 I hate unrelated articles presented as arguments towards actual histological findings.
I've just had an argument saying the somatosensory stimuli doesn't correlate to Meissner corpuscles because of this article.
Even though, the article isn't even testing the foreskin, they are testing the glans;
> quantitative somatosensory testing results at the glans penis.
And then there are those articles about temperature testing, and those ones with the infamous Brian J Morris and his junk publisher (pay to publish, no peer reviewing) articles.
It's so infuriating because these people read the headlines and some complicated sounding key words and assume it's supporting them. It would be much easier if these misleading articles didn't exist in the first place.
It's like reading some anti-vax conspiracy theory about how they give you mutations and "change your RNA", except it's published and in guise of a reputable paper.
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2021.11.28 23:14 Excellent_Program_81 I want to switch beddings, but I don't know what to switch to. Do you guys have any suggestions?
Ok so, I am currently using kaytee clean and cozy in my enclosure, but I have been noticing that the bags I get are definitely decreasing in quality. I have decided that I want to switch beddings, but I don't know many others besides carefresh (and I don't know if I want to use that one since I've seen people say that the bedding has killed their hamsters). Any suggestions (I'm in the US by the way if that is relevant)?
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2021.11.28 23:14 DreezyRg OQUE VOCÊ VAI MEDAR DE PRESENTE ?? *Opções na descrição amo livros* 😁😁 #shorts
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2021.11.28 23:14 nun_atoll 1 — Rollin'
You know how often I have told you of my time away from the place of my birth, and of all I have learned in my wandering. Know now that I return to my birthplace, and to you, and that we will talk about these mysteries... — postscriptum to The Pauline Elucidations of L, Porby Translation.
Hal was slumped in the seat, head tilted down and left so the side of his jaw was against his clavicle. For a moment, Jake's heart skipped.
'He's dead he's dead oh shit...'
But that worry was over even as it began. Hal was breathing audibly, the same ragged way he had been since Jake picked him up in San Francisco. Hell, he had sounded like that, though not yet as rough, during their last phone call before Jake set off to drive cross-country.
Tightening his grip on the wheel, Jake stared ahead at the road. They were nearly into Gravend proper, just passing the Bennett farm on the left and Toby's Cider Mill on the right. The Cristmas lights were up on the Mill, and that made Jake smile for just a moment; ol' Toby was always in a hurry to be festive.
The town sign was up ahead, the old faded sign that had been knocked down, reset, stolen, recovered, shot up, and repaired a billion times and that the board had finally decided to bed in a new lay of concrete last summer.
One very uncertain corner looked ready to crack off, and probably would soon. The wind was up.
It was not such a bad day for wind, really. Not a howler like sometimes. But it was windy, and pretty cold. When they had stopped an hour back so Hal could be sick on the roadside and take some pills, the wind had whirled wildly around the car.
"Remember what Dad said?" Hal had asked as they got underway again.
"About the lions. The wind."
Jake had laughed, but only to please his brother. Dad was dead, gone almost six months now, and Jake hated to admit he was happy about it. Dad being dead was the only reason Hal could come home now. Maybe if Dad had been less wound up about stuff, if they could have brought Hal home before, when he was not quite so sick...
"Be sure the lions don't getcha," Hal had said, in a voice too perfectly like Dad's.
That was what Dad had always said. He said the roaring and howling of high wind was lions, waiting outside to catch anyone who did the wrong thing. He used it to scare them all as little kids, to keep them in line. Even when they got older, when they were too smart to fall for that stuff, Dad would still say it.
Aunt Hen, when she visited once a year from the convent, said that Dad got it from his uncle Holt, who had been a real fire-and-brimstone minister. Said maybe it was meant to be the Lion of Judah or something.
As the car glided along Latimore Street, Jake slowed, then stopped at the intersection of Latimore and Creel to let Bick Haskins cross. Bick waved, offered his usual crooked smile, and disappeared into the post office.
"All the same," Hal rasped, and Jake looked over to see his brother was awake again.
"Pretty much. Gravend is Gravend is Gravend."
"Good to be back. I missed it."
"Yeah? Well, you always were kinda weird."
"Fudge you, man!"
"Right back atcha, man!"
It felt like old times again. Laughing in the car, using the old half-swears they would say as kids to avoid Dad's wrath. For a minute, the last decade or so melted away, and Jake could pretend it was all good. He and Hal were home from Morlyndale for Christmas, maybe, and Hal was letting him drive the last little bit.
Everything could be normal again, maybe, if he just thought it.
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2021.11.28 23:14 lame_excuses_ What Are Some Things That All Moms Say?
2021.11.28 23:14 GD_WoTS Book recommendation
2021.11.28 23:14 Dracolo14007 How do I get the siren elf head in the one shot?
I’ve been playing since the launch of 2, and my favorite head on any character to this day is the elven eliminator head for maya. I could have sworn I got it in a dice chest once, but I’ve been trying the chests for hours and I can’t find it. Is it not in the dragons keep one shot? Because I will be very sad if that’s the case
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2021.11.28 23:14 SuperSaiyanJuniper LR Rage Trunks Concept
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2021.11.28 23:14 heysvintura Jasper will always be a fucking legend for bringing up Nintendo Switch on a grammy’s stage
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2021.11.28 23:14 anshulshah10 [USA-NC][H]BNIB Nintendo Switch OLED [W]PayPal or local cash.
Got this from BestBuy a few days ago. Looking for $430 shipped obo. Local is 28277. Only opened the box to take timestamp pics and please the HWS overlords (the box didn't come with a shrink-wrap or seal from factory).
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2021.11.28 23:14 Pizza_Rollz87 Favorite pikmin 3 type?